my heart goes out to all of you and the family members…

i think what you are feeling is natural and im not sure if it can be escaped anyhow

but what maybe of some consolation is that you have been deeply concerned in heart and mind for all these days…playing your part as the point of contact for all and sundry to find out about the latest situations…it may seem mundane and insignificant in the larger scheme of things but i know that it is quite a task in its own way…

your life has responded to your friend in a the best possible manner and within our mortal limitations of time and money, its the best one could have done…the answer to the question if what is the most appropriate response can be decided by each individual concerned only…the others can only speculate…

and in the end its the heart that is important… and I’m sure that could help deciding how well one has done…

circumstances can determine the level of involvement but not the intensity…

so don’t worry…you doing well…

till later,

Cheers!

RSK